Funny thing happened in the Dollar store this morning. Numerous people smiled and said "Have a Happy Holiday". Now I know your asking, "Why was that so odd or funny?, after all it is the Holiday Season." Yes you would be right, it is the "Holiday Season", but my question is, why does everyone wait untill the "Holiday Season" to wish others well?
I understand this custom, but having been raised to always say something "Nice", I truly "don't" understand it. Notice how I said that I was in the "Dollar Store", you see I proably spend a more proportionate amout of money there than just about anywhere else. It really is amazing what you can buy at the Dollar Store these days, some weeks I practically do my grocery shopping there.
But anyway back on point....anywho......Why do we have to wait till now, the "Holiday Season" to be "Nice" to people and "wish them well". Why don't we do it all year round. The reason I used the Dollar Store analogy was because I would venture to say that a large majority of us that shop at such stores do so out of neccessity. We don't have extra money laying around, and we are content to shop at the "Dollar Stores" in our community and very seldom do I ever come across a "rude" person in one of these stores, so I have to ask myself why is that?
I mean after all have you been to Walmart lately, how often do you run into happy, grateful, well wishers there? Honestly, I don't know if I ever have. Case and point was recently proven, sadly in a New York Walmart recently where an employee was mowed down and killed by Black Friday shoppers. The employee was trying to keep a pregnant woman from getting crushed by the Mob. This is the perfect example of of how comercialization has replaced "Holiday Cheer". Now undoubtably these shoppers that scooped up their HD TV fo $700 and $20 Video games sincerely believe they are doing their part in "Holdiay Cheer" with the giving of these gifts that now technically, are accessories to a crime, seriously, after all the shoppers took part in the rampage that resulted in the killing of one man and the maming of many more are the perpatrators. Bet they won't be sharing that little tidbit of "Joy" with the recipient of the gift they "had to have".
In my experience those that are labeled as "unfortunate" are usually the "fortunate" ones. We are fortunate enough to realize that the best things in life are free. It cost us nothing to say "thank you" or "God bless you".
It costs us nothing to hold a door open for a fellow shopper or let some one else have that parking space. It costs us nothing to hug someone having a bad day, or even just a smile and nod to someone that has greeted us as we walk in the store. Acknowledgment is a wonderful thing, we all like to be acknowledged, whether its a nod, a handshake, a smile or even a wink, acknowledgement makes us feels good it makes us feel important, its like saying "thank you" without ever opening your mouth. Sometimes the best present of all is just being present.
After this Holiday Season is done and gone and tree is on the curb and the garbage receptacles are full of tattered wrapping paper and handcrafted bows don't feel empty, feel blessed, because I promise you, you can always find someone worse off than yourself, I promise you that. So tommmorrow when the dawn awakes your soul take a minute before you rise and use all your senses.
Take a moment and take it all in. . . . Listen, what do you hear, maybe you hear a baby crying because your a Mother, or maybe a Dog whining to go outside, or maybe just some squirrel chatter or bird chirping, but they are all beautiful sounds. Now smell, what do you smell, coffee brewing, bacon cooking, puppy accidents (my house, LOL), whatever it is its all good. Now use your eyes what do you see, a soulmate, a friend-some furry-some not, a roof over your head, a beautiful child with messy hair and a toothless grin, whatever you see, its beautiful, isn't it? Now using your hands what do you feel, the covers that you want to pull over your head, the cheek of someone next to you, the paws of a furry friend, your warming hands on a hot cup of coffee or cocoa, it all feels so good, doesn't it?
Everyday we all have so much to be grateful for, but everyday we take it for granted and find something to complain about. The holiday season brings out the best in most people, but why wait till the the holiday season to bring out the best in yourself. The old cliche' "Today is the first day of the rest of your life" is a wonderful saying but I like the saying "Live each day like it was your last" so much better. We all have no idea how much time we have left on this earth, so take today to make a difference in someones life, take every single day to make a difference.
When the dawn awakes your soul and the day is still brand new
Do you look up to the heavens and say a soft "Thank You"
Each day is such a blessing A gift that's in disguise
He lets us follow in his footsteps from the moment that we rise
As your walking down the street and it's a sad face that you see
can you take the time to smile, that alone can fill a need
A need to feel we're loved as he so loved us so,
Is made to pass on to another these seeds of kindness that we sew
These seeds will bloom more along the way like the seeds from wildflowers
They spread more everyday, spread them every hour
Take the time each morning to thank the lord above
for giving us this chance to spread his everlasting love
Then reach inside your heart a little more each day
and give what you've been given to those along your way
Spreading random acts of kindness without prejudice or cause
All comes so very easily when your wrapped within his love
Recently I received one of Joel Osteens daily words where he had written about how the Bible states that the prayer of the righteous person is powerful, but if we aren’t treating others with honor, kindness, and respect, then we aren’t allowing His righteousness to operate in us. When we don’t treat others the way we should, it closes the door to God’s power and hinders our prayers. All the more reason to not wait untill the holiday season to spread some "Joy and Cheer".
On a lighter note, if your shopping list is fatter than your wallet you can always do like Bernard Manning was quoted as saying; "I once bought my kids a set of batteries for Christmas with a note on it saying, toys not included."
Love, Hugs and Blessings to all!!